February 4th, 2010 | 
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I’m only young (older teens), but never had a gf, and I don’t know what I should do first. Are there any specific things to do before dating? Any help is greatly appreciated, and if anyone wants to e-mail me to chat or get in contact, that would be great! Thanks in advance!
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Well.. I’m not an older teen. But I am 14, and I have had some experience with dating.
To be honest, Just be yourself. I’m sure you heard that one a lot, but it’s best if you just be who you are, and not start a relationship on top of a lie.
I would say, become their friend before you date them. Then you’ll know if you’re dating material or just friends.
Don’t give up buddy. I had my first GF when I was 18. Don’t worry all in time you will meet plenty of girls, Specially in college. Just remember that you will get threw a very hard break up it is bound to happen, it is part of growing up.
I suggest beginning with CONFIDENCE. Feeling good about yourself definitely shows and attracts people towards you. Remember though, having too much or too little can be very unattractive no matter how good looking you are.
Once you have confidence in yourself, I think you are ready for anything. Get out there! Hang out in places that you know you’ll come across girls your age. Do things you like to do…..chances are you’ll meet more people who share the same interests.
Lastly, do not get discouraged if you don’t find a girlfriend right away. Some people end up being really great friends….and you never know who they can introduce you to as well.
For more help, visit…..http://under-thespotlight.blogspot.com/
Good luck!!